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« on: December 20, 2018, 07:23:44 AM »

Hey all,

New to this board... .well the BPD world in general, I suppose.  My 14 yr old daughter was diagnosed about a year ago and that was the first I'd heard of the diagnosis at all. It's been quite the roller coaster this year dealing with her emotions, our emotions, and the collateral damage that is caused when she deals with her emotions poorly.

I'm sure this is not unique to us in this regard, and looking forward to having an outlet to share those thoughts and emotions with others that have similar experiences.

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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
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« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2018, 09:15:00 AM »

Hi ChevyGuy and welcome to the board.   I am glad you are reaching out for support.  We have many parents who are in similar situations with their kids and we all work together to support each other and to try to brainstorm. 

what sort of behaviors does your daughter engage in?  Is she in treatment?  Other than here, do you have your own support network?

As you get comfortable here, I hope you share more about your daughter and your own struggles in coping with BPD behaviors.  Please read, feel free to jump in and post in other threads and just make yourself at home.  I think you will find this place very welcoming.

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« Reply #2 on: December 21, 2018, 11:19:53 AM »

Hi ChevyGuy2018,

I join Harri in welcoming you to the boards. You have come to the right place to share your thoughts and emotions, get support as you travel this rollercoaster journey with us.

I look forward to hearing more from you.

~ OH
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« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2018, 12:33:31 PM »

Hi ChevyGuy2018  Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

I join Harri and Only Human welcoming you to bpdfamily  Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

We've got you, what's happening?

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