If you know me and my other threads this might surprise you as much as it has surprised me... .
My ex and me had a one year long beautiful long distance relationship and we were engaged.
Then the break up happened.
But we were talking about MAYBE getting back together since then... .I wanted to work this out, he had trust issues because he was hurt about one thing l did.
He surprisingly got into a new relationship 4 months after he broke up with me - which broke my heart - but that relationship didn't last long and again we got back to talking about working things out... .
But instead he then got back together with HER only three months later, was together with her for 3 months and lived with her... .
Things fell apart again then for reasons I don't know about
Since they've broken up again we got back to talking more and met up a few times.
She got into a new relationship in August.
He kept telling me she was a horrible person who only used him for money, told me they were friends for a while after the break up but then he quit that because she made some mistakes on a day he felt bad. He cut her off.
While he told me this, he still kind of seemed hung up on her on social media.
I could never tell exactly if his posts were about me or about her. A post about hurting because the one he loves is loving someone else made me realise he probably meant her... .But what he told me about her didn't match... .
Her new relationship lasted until this Christmas... .
Next week is her birthday and what l found out on his social media again, is that he'll see her then. He's talking about being so happy because he never believed he'd get such a chance again... .
It all sounds like he'd do anything to make things work with her again. And honestly? That girl (in her early twenties) has a kid and jumps from one relationship into the next, it wouldn't surprise me if he got that chance, as charming as he can be... .
You see, I'm still on this board. It's one year and four months. I still want him back. I still want this to work. I love him.
If he loves his recent short term ex that he lived with for a few months, than me, the woman he's been with for a year on a long distance, who he wanted to get married to... .
Do you think if l wait this out I can stand another chance?
It's just a month ago that we've seen each other and hooked up - but everything else l got from him was cold politeness... .
I love him, I'm hurting a lot.
I hope someone has some comforting words for me. This is all really hard for me.
We're in no contact for a few weeks, l asked for space and only talk to him when he reaches out which he sometimes still does... .But not since he found out that he might have another chance with her... .