23 yr old son has BPD

[DearLee]

Hi.  I’m here because my 23 year old son is suffering from BPD.  He does not want therapy and we are at a loss as how to help him.  Looking for advice and understanding.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Harri]

Hi Dee and welcome!  I am glad you are reaching our for support.  I think you are in the right place.

Can you share more of your story?  What sort of behaviors do you experience with your son?  What do you do to cope and take care of yourself.  Other than here, do you have support?

Please share and get comfortable and post and read.  We all work together here.

Again,