Hi
Campingmomma
I think this is actually a very miraculous thing that might be happening
It is, it is! Our kids need a broad strong support group (outside the immediate family) and this is the beginning by the sounds of it. Building mental health community. We (DD and I) opened our home up to friends, family and colleagues when DD hit crisis and was dx 4 years ago at 26yrs, DD was and is not alone. That is what worked in our situation, it certainly helped remove stigma and isolation.
Hang in there with DBT it takes time, my DD said I can learn, the challenge is implementing the skills, she gave up work Dec 2016 to focus on doing just that 24/7. Building those muscles, that do not feel intuitive.
Tell us more about your 21DD, is she working, studying, friends, lifestyle?
Hi to your cousin from me
So feeling much more hopeful today than I did yesterday.
Celebrate the positives everyday surely does help.
It also helps to stay here and post and learn together, there is such wise advice right here, you can't get anywhere else on this planet.
WDx