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The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
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August 06, 2019, 07:30:09 PM »
I couldn't wait to be able to say this...
Today I was walking along the canal and realized that I don't think of my exUBPDbf as much as I used to. I said to myself
"finally"!
This thought was worth a post.
Amen
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Hi Tsultan, and congrats on reaching this point
I remember when my wedding anniversary came this past year, and I didn't even realize what day it was for three whole hours after I woke up That was worth a post to me because it felt huge.
It's definitely a confidence-booster when you realize that there actually is some progress being made! I hope it gets even better for you from here
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Great news, Tsultan! Keep up the good work. I'm here to confirm that it's possible to find greater happiness in the aftermath of a BPD r/s. That's what it's all about, right?
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Lucky Jim,
Yes!
Greater
happiness - I like that. That is what it's all about. And I have it finally again.
I'm doing okay. Starting to feel good again.
Thanks for responding.
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Thank you
I am redeemed!
That must have been a great feeling! I think I remember reading your post that day.
Yes confidence booster is a great way to put it. Finally making progress!
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Tsultan
I want to add to the congratulations!
I am happy for you!
I hope you keep having more times to say FINALLY!
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Ecan,
Thank you!
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