Thanks Mutt. That’s an excellent response. I’ve gotten better at snapping back to reality much quicker when I have those sappy, gushy thoughts. Nc forever. There’s no way she’ll make it for the long haul at this job. She’s burned too many bridges and will run out of supply soon.
I’m proud of myself for standing up to her. I have a feeling most of the men in her life have gotten steam rolled by her. But she’ll for sure look back on me and think jingle bells was one tough sob. But I’m honestly getting to the point where I don’t even give a damn what she thinks one way or the other. Progress!
I echo everything you wrote here - total mirror of my personal situation.
I felt bad for a while, until someone wizened me up to the reality of the situation. Then it occured to me that the fuzzy feelings masked my shame and subsequent hurt. And then I come to know that she will realize that REV is one tough SOB (as you put it) - met her match is how a friend put it.
Rev