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Lucy@peanuts
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
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« on: November 16, 2019, 07:13:19 AM »

Hello there

For the first time today, I heard from a therapist that my child has bpd. Not sure what it is and how it impacts my child and us. The therapist recommended for us to read ‘walking on eggshells’ and I hope that these resources can truly help us understand the situation and how to deal with it.
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
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Relationship status: Married. With adult child relationship can be described as loving. Cloudy with sunny breaks. High wind warning. Risk of thunderstorms but much less severe than previous. Long term forecast shows promise of sunnier days ahead
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« Reply #1 on: November 16, 2019, 07:44:59 AM »

Welcome Lucy!   So glad that you are here.  How old is your child?  Learning as much as you can about BPD is important right now.   I agree with the therapist to start reading about it.   On this site you can find lots of tools and a great library (scroll down past the top lists of discussion groups, you will find it there).
There is no magic wand or medication fix for BPD, it is something that has to be managed and the more you learn about it the better off your child and your whole family will be. 
We are here to help!   
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« Reply #2 on: November 16, 2019, 11:02:12 AM »

Hello Lucy
I join Resilient in welcoming you here. This is a great place for you to get the information and support you need. Can you tell us what led up to this diagnosis? We are all here for you.
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