New member desperately searching for answers

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I’m new here, desperately searching for answers. Don’t have an official diagnosis for my child but I couldn’t bring it up explosion would be heard around the world. How in the world do u manage I’m just seeking%

[MimiHere]

I’m new here, desperately searching for answers. Don’t have an official diagnosis for my child but I couldn’t bring it up explosion would be heard around the world. How in the world do u manage I’m just seeking%

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[FaithHopeLove]

Hello Mimihere
Welcome to the group. I am glad you found us. This is a great place to get reliable information about BPD and support from other parents who are in your situation. How do we manage? There are a lot of things that help
 First on the list is self care. Loving someone with BPD is a tough journey and you need to be as healthy and centered as possible. Lots of us are in therapy and find it helps. If alcohol or drug abuse is part of your child's condition AlAnon is excellent. Also learning all you can about BPD helps a lot particularly when it comes to learning the communication skills you need to improve your relationship. If you look at the top of your screen you will see links to some first rate articles and films that include lots of practical advice. What more can you say about your child? What are they doing that causes you to think they may have BPD? How can we help?
Hugs
Faith

[formflier]

I want to join FaithHopeLove in welcoming you to bpdfamily.

It must be hard to believe you can't bring something up without an explosion of bad behavior "going off".  

Can you share with us you would like to say?  It's safe her to share!

I'll check back later.

Best,

FF