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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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Author Topic: I have become headparent for our son  (Read 346 times)
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« on: December 27, 2019, 09:24:51 AM »

Hi everyone,

It has been months ago when I was here for the last time. 2019 has been a difficult year, but in the end I have become the definite headparent for our son. My BPD ex wife now has the access arrangement I had for 15 months. With is a weekend arrangement. Since 21st of October our son has been place out of his home with his mother and placed by me. This was three weeks after I moved from a caravan to a real home. Last week I became the definite headparent for ever.

This is done after an investigation from the border of childprotection. My ex is now very pissed on my and our son is under supervision of childcare, but for me that ain't a problem. I coöperate fine with the man from childcare. This is the best thing that could happen for our son.

Finally after 2 1/2 years of fighting things have come may way and the best way for our son. I will keep on fighting for a better understanding between my ex and myself, but for now the ball is in the corner of my ex. The judge has decided that she is the biggest problem in our relationship.

Thanks for listening.

Greetings,

LovingDad
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« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2019, 11:38:54 PM »

Great news, LovingDad!  Way to go! (click to insert in post)

It's always such a gift when the truth comes out and the kids benefit.

I hope you're able to have really wonderful, low stress times with your son in your new home.

Happy New Year, and may 2020 be full of joy for you guys;

kells76
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« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2019, 11:29:20 AM »

Congratulations!

I'm so glad you kept fighting for your son, and that the authorities finally saw that you are the responsible parent.
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