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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: January 31, 2020, 09:14:14 AM »
lawyer got in touch with me yesterday & told me that my FIL thinks i am intentionally delaying this divorce.

i laughed. she didn't think it was funny. can i just say i need my tribe who understands irony & humor?

anyway, after going back & forth, she emailed FIL's lawyer & said (much too politely IMHO) that TMD had suggested months back that it would be more beneficial to specify the topics that FIL doesn't want me to write about.

best guess is FIL will come roaring back after a huge delay (that is his MO. wait & wait & wait and the come blustering & sputtering back about how unfair everyone is to him. insert expletive right about here.). after that huge delay, he will say no that won't work.

and we will be back where we started.

this time around, however, thanks to advice i've gotten here (thanks, Formflier),i will insist on language that gives up the right to sue and instead we will need to rely on mediation, which will fall under my state's jurisdiction.

happy weekend, all.

TMD
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« Reply #1 on: January 31, 2020, 09:25:21 AM »
To for arbitration, not mediation. Arbitration is a slightly more formal and binding process -- most businesses have arbitration included in contracts.
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« Reply #2 on: January 31, 2020, 10:11:09 AM »
Quote from: GaGrl on January 31, 2020, 09:25:21 AM
To for arbitration, not mediation. Arbitration is a slightly more formal and binding process -- most businesses have arbitration included in contracts.
is it arbitration in family law?
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« Reply #3 on: January 31, 2020, 10:18:20 AM »
Quote from: toomanydogs on January 31, 2020, 10:11:09 AM
is it arbitration in family law?


Not sure...May depend on your state. The thing is, this crosses into your business and ability to make a living, so it gets into a gray area.
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« Reply #4 on: February 01, 2020, 10:41:39 AM »
Quote from: toomanydogs on January 31, 2020, 10:11:09 AM
is it arbitration in family law?

It's not used very often in my area, but my lawyer mentioned it once as an option although he had reservations about it for my case. I didn't ask any further than that because I was perpetually watching my minutes with him.
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« Reply #5 on: February 01, 2020, 12:24:23 PM »
Quote from: MeandThee29 on February 01, 2020, 10:41:39 AM
It's not used very often in my area, but my lawyer mentioned it once as an option although he had reservations about it for my case. I didn't ask any further than that because I was perpetually watching my minutes with him.
thanks Me&Thee & GaGrl
i just read up on arbitration in my area. sounds interesting, and it sounds like something my FIL might prefer because it keeps issues private.
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