I’m scarred to death she is going to be on the street

[DeeDee19]

This is my first post and I have no idea where to start. My daughter has BPD. She is divorced with 2 kids, quit working and has very little money. She cannot live with me, I’m scarred to death she is going to be on the street! :-(

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Harri]

Hi.

Yeah, knowing where to start can be hard when there is often so much to share.  I am glad you posted. 

You mentioned your daughter can not live with you.  Is that because you have made that decision?  If so, please know you are not alone in that.  Many of the parents have made the same difficult decision.  Where is your daughter currently living?  How old are her kids?

I hope you share more about your situation and more about yourself so we can support you.