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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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JNChell
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« on: September 16, 2020, 04:57:52 PM »

People simply want to get along. We want to love each other. This isn’t constrained by boundaries, it’s constrained by a narrative. I’d like to say ideology, but these manipulators don’t get that. I’m talking about high level decision makers. It trickles down.

If everyone wants to get along, I would be seeing my Son. If everyone wants to get along, a woman wouldn’t be standing in the way that.
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« Reply #1 on: September 17, 2020, 04:16:58 PM »

I'm sorry that you going through this. If it helps, I can't imagine the pain.

I would say that SOME people want to get along and SOME people are decent human beings.
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JNChell
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« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2020, 04:34:35 PM »

I’m not quite sure what you mean. Can you elaborate?
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