Adult Daughter with BPD

[Kotys Mom]

Hi,

I'm a new member.  I have an adult daughter with BPD, and I need help.

Thank you,

Kotys Mom

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Swimmy55]

Welcome,
If you are comfortable, can you provide a little more information such as if she is living with you?   The best general advice is to remember you are as important as your BPD adult child.  Coming here is a good step in the right direction, as there are kindred spirits here in addition to information on BPD.  Please take a look around the website, the pull down menus , etc and familiarize yourself with BPD .   Our main focus here regarding adult BPD children is that we parents are as important and we have to get our needs met as well.  It is so easy for us to get lost in our adult child's illness.