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Re: Working on getting better while she gets worse

« Reply #30 on: December 03, 2020, 10:17:34 PM »

No criticism at all...I hope to help you do insight and self evaluation.

How much work was it for you to do the claim? (how long, how many phone calls, emails, website visits)

Are you better at it that your wife?

How long would she have taken?

How do you feel after doing that for her?

How do you believe she feels?

How has she expressed her gratitude to you?

Best,

FF


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Re: Working on getting better while she gets worse

« Reply #31 on: December 05, 2020, 03:21:29 PM »

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