help understanding posts

[maddiegso]

please help  me figure out what all the dd, dh, etc mean... where can I find the meanings?  thanks!

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[DJACJ5]

They're explained here:

https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=26601.0

But the ones you mentioned, the first "D" means "Dear", the 2nd "D"= "daughter", "H"= "husband".

Dd - dear daughter
Dh - dear husband, or, if you're feeling particularly uncharitable, it could have another meaning

[PearlsBefore]

...and since you're bound to ask, yes we do often get confused thinking somebody's talking about their son-in-law only to discover it's their sister-in-law