Things you can never say to a pwBPD

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

So that’s OK if you do it, but NOT OK if I do it?

I literally just went through this...  The answer was:  I've told you not to do it.  You've never told me not to do it.

Seriously.

[Ventak]

So that’s OK if you do it, but NOT OK if I do it?

I literally just went through this...  The answer was:  I've told you not to do it.  You've never told me not to do it.

Seriously.

[Cat Familiar]

Along the same lines as the above: what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

[B53]

As, I remember it, “weren’t you the one who broke up with me, broke my heart and walked away. Why do you think I owe you anything?”

There is a song that has a line that goes
“You made your bed, and didn’t want me in it”

[Marianne-11]

Oh boy, this is therapeutic 

- Let’s sit down and have a rational conversation about this.

- Let’s look at actual facts; what we know has really happened.

[ForeverDad]

I'm going to play that Culture Club song again...
"Do You Really Want to Hurt Me, Do You Really Want to Make Me Cry..."

[Couper]

"I called and rescheduled your appointment."

[GaGrl]

"Could you stop at the pharmacy and pick up my prescription? I'm having a flare-up of the STD you gave me. "

[oakland2021]

I'm new here and reading through this thread I already feel so at home. It's a bittersweet feeling.

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