Reverse a break up

[Jmsitb]

My girlfriend and were in love I had to go to jail for 60 days when I got out she said we should just be friends that we weren't good to each other over the phone when I saw her we talked about trying to fix it she said yea we should then went home to her moms and went back to we should be friends her mom and step dad don't want me with her she just quit drugs and they blame me for her drug issues I am sober also 60 days clean what should I do

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[hope2727]

WOW! Congratulations on 60 days clean and sober! That is a huge accomplishment. You must be really proud. Many, many people never manage that. Well done. what is your support system? Do you have sponsor? Do you have a counsellor? Do you go to meetings?

You asked what do you do to get your girlfriend back. The first thing is be the absolute best version of yourself. It sounds like you are well on your way to doing that. We attract what we put our there so thing about what you put out there. You are 60 days clean and sober... how about healthy and happy? Maybe that can be your next goal. If you are you absolute healthiest happiest self you will have a better life and maybe if she is ready she will want to join it. Either way you will be on the road to a successful life.

Congratulations again. I am very impressed.

[VitaminC]

Hi there, Jmsitb. Welcome!

I'd like to also say well done on being clean for 60 days. No small accomplishment.

Can I ask what brings you to BPD Family? Do you think your girlfriend shows some symptoms of BPD? Can you give us a little more information so that members can help you?

[Meili]

Greetings! 

I would like to join in with welcoming you. How long were the two of you together? What was the relationship like during that time?