Hi AKA Brian, welcome -- you've found a group that definitely understands that divorcing a person with a PD is challenging at best.
If you haven't seen it yet, check out the book
Splitting: Protecting yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or a Narcissist, by William A. ("Bill") Eddy, Esq. Many members have found it incredibly helpful, because when a pwBPD is involved, it won't be a "typical" divorce, and you need different tools and skills.
Where are you at in the divorce process? And do you share any kids with your spouse?
Fill us in whenever works for you;
kells76
