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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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Author Topic: It’s been almost 7 weeks since she split  (Read 256 times)
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What is your sexual orientation: Gay, lesb
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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« on: May 15, 2023, 12:36:30 PM »

Hi. My partner last split on me while she was in private psychiatric care, perceiving that a social media post I made was directed at her. The last thing she said to me was that I have no idea how much I’ve damaged her heart, mental health, live and trust for her with my post and that she needs space.. Since then I have been blocked on all platforms and cut off as a contact from the facility.
I am struggling to get by every day. I don’t fully understand why she has done this and feel abandoned myself. They say it’s meant to get easier but I feel this is just getting harder every day, no matter how much self care I initiate. Is this the final discard?
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Broken up
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« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2023, 08:51:56 PM »

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I’m in the same boat basically. 8 weeks ago I was blocked and nothing since. It does get easier and I think it’s due to the anti depressants I started 3 weeks ago and the 10 or so therapy sessions I have had. The anti depressants have made me feel less pain.

I have also been implementing self care to an extent I never thought of before. I’ve booked a holiday to Bali, I’m getting laser rejuvenation, car detailing, and reconnecting with old friends.

I changed my researching and thinking to focus on why I dodged a bullet rather than trying to win back/what ifs/what I’m missing out on. And I think I’m finally coming to terms with that. Talk to your friends about the psychotic bullPLEASE READ, the weird behaviours and red flags you ignored. I’ve talked a lot and they are confirming everytime that I have infact dodged a bullet.
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