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He wrote a Facebook status about me . . .
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August 13, 2015, 08:51:56 PM »
I need help "translating" this. I know it's about me because he used the same words he used in a private text to me.
Keep in mind he's blocked me on Facebook twice and then unblocked me. We're still not friends, but I can see his statuses, and this is intentional for him to let me see this . . .
He is much more poetic in his Facebook posts than in his texts, so keep that in mind. Here's his text to me:
"When will you try to help yourself finding even a part time job and stop being a checker so som people will stop using you as you gave them opportunity. Make a plan for you too."
His Facebook post:
"I've never been so sad even for myself. People never like telling stories but sometimes your story described who you are and what you want to be. I can't believe someone can be satisfied with the minimum, get trapped by yourself given opportunity. Where is the big dream? The truth, it's a world in another, the pyramid of many scientists,Maslow the one who most of us know Talked about needs. Therefore mine
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Text sounds like he is splitting you black---the post is more positive and caring
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That's what I'm thinking. And he wrote the text to me this morning, and posted this just a couple of hours ago. He's obsessing about me. It's kinda sweet! Hahaha
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