Hi snoopy and welcome to the board. You are not alone in this struggle. We have many members here who are trying to figure out how to stay in their relationship and remain or even get healthy as well.
It is great that your husband is in therapy. I am wondering what sort of support you have. Other than here that is? Do you see a therapist? I am not saying there is anything wrong with you. Rather I am thinking it is so hard to support someone going through the recovery process while also taking care of yourself. Is therapy an option?
If you had to pick just one thing to address for yourself what would it be? Let's try to start there.
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