The thing that tripped me out, after all this time researching the disorder, and then listening to her again, I could hear her feelings in the moment. What she was saying she meant. But I could also tell those are the feelings of "now."
That's a great realisation / understanding, Minusone. It sounds like you handled that conversation very well - with compassion & insight, and also that you managed to apply what you've learned and keep your boundaries intact.
I hope you stop for a moment and let yourself feel very good about that.
I don't know where this leaves me. Its been on my mind since we talked. But not too much.
I just don't know how to approach this. She's moving soon. If I have the chance to help, I want to.
Where it leaves you is for you to define
How do you think you can 'help'? In that kind of situation, I would hope that I would think long and hard about what I feel capable of giving, what amount of 'help' would be needed, and if I want to put myself in the situation of supporting someone through a process that they really must undertake themselves - under their own steam.