i know behavior lists are really stupid,BUT

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I've read through alot of the different posts on the different characteristics that peoples x's displayed. I'd like some opinions on whether or not some of you actually find my x's behaviors enough to think she was BPD.

1. Anytime confronted with a situation she would get a totally blank stare that would go right through me.

2.If i asked her a question she didn't want to deal with she would answer with a question.

3. Always thought members of my family should choose sides and it better be hers.

4.  wanted to go on trips we couldn't afford.

5.  Silent treatment all the time.

6.  never cried for a person in 12 yrs of marriage.

7. only cried for a baby cat that died.

8. I couldn't hunt,fish,golf or see my buddy without her getting pissed.

9.  I cooked for first 8 years of marriage

10.  If plans fell through she pouted like a spoiled brat.

11.  Had sex constantly until married then it all stopped

12.  always panic and anxiety attacks

13.  all her favorite shows were about true love

14.  headaches all the time

15.  never responsible

16.  lied about spending habit all the time

17.  hoarded stuffed animals,  said they were for the kids

18.  never reprimanded kids

19.  one time told my mother when asked who is the parent, He is, referring to me.

20.  Showed the dog more affection than our children

  The list could go on and on!  What u guys think?