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2 hour pre-bed time talk with BPDw... . totally one sided of course... . All I could think about was Robbin William's line from Night at the Museum... . Who's the higher primate, who's the higher primate? Anyone else... . Please share... .
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Yep. Nightly diatribes from uBPDh, usually about what a moron a coworker is, a perceived wrong, or about how successful he is (which he indeed is). I used to agree, nod, insert validation, until I learned he actually doesn't even want that, until two hours later, when he is feining to be done. He wants to run nonstop with it.
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Same convo for me too. It did go back to... . and this has been my favorite this week. She nightly talks about her super acute sense of hearing and smell to the extreme of making it sound like a super power.  :)on't really know where that one has come from but she has stayed the course with that one since Sunday night. Go figure.
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Dear God. F that.
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WHAT? Sorry, that one made me giggle.
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I believe that it goes back to their perception/hyper-sensitivity to light, sound, noise and the like.
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