WHY THEY STILL LOVE US AFTER THEY LEAVE & FEAR OUR ABAODNEMENT WI

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Recently someone on the mssage boards asked a really good question regarding why if the BPD still has fears of the non abandoning them AFTER they have left the non.

In my opinion this goes to the core of whats going on with the BPD after the breakup and why they continue tro recylce even after they have a new partner.

First let me begin by saying that not all BPD's are identical. For a host pof reasons they all significant differences (some arealcohloics, others anorexic, some cannot functions etc). However the underlying patterns of bahvior are very similar.