Interesting things she used my stumbleupon acct

[jollygreen]

So first off I never use stumbleupon. It was actually my BPD ex's idea and she made one for me. I have an iPad and she would use it all the time. Funny thing is she would surf stumbleupon while logged into my acct thinking it was hers.

Ok so now that's out of the way, we've been broken up almost 4 months now with no contact on both parts. I get random emails from stumbleupon every week and I just delete them. Well this morning I decided to open one up due to boredom. It said "based upon your last searches here are some suggestion that we have and you might find interesting." There were picture links to view photos and article links on "how to get what you want from other people," and "how to control others in situations." Very interesting... . Thought I would share this with everyone. Any body find stuff like that?

[mango_flower]

That's creepy!  And a bit scary! 

Doesn't surprise me though, sadly.

How do you feel about it?  Are you worried about a recycle attempt coming your way?

[jollygreen]

Actually when I saw it I chuckled. I already new there was manipulation and vindictive behavior when we were together and this confirms that she actively looked for tools.

Do I think she'll contact me? I don't know to tell you the truth. I know that I'm her first ex of five to not be another trophy on her Facebook wall. A lot was said during our breakup conversation. Mostly it was my fault and then at the end she blamed her treating me bad on hormone problems, and said she still loved me but wanted to be friends. "No thanks!"

So her birthday is coming up real fast. Don't know what to expect. I don't want to contact her or receive any. But would I be a jerk for not wishing her a happy birthday?