just need to share this

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I just found out my exBPDgf is back in jail.  She also took her "wife" with her. She is facing serious charges, several felonies, and got picked up on possession charges. I'm grateful its not me.

I guess what I'm saying is, is that it doesn't get better for them or the next person. Especially when addiction is involved.

Part of me does feel bad, but another part of me is saying I told you so. I'm really trying to be humble.

The ex tried telling me after 2 months sobriety that she was a different person. I know that's not how it works.

As for me, 13 months clean!

Let her wife deal with the drama

NC is the only way to go

[shadowman]

I just found out my exBPDgf is back in jail.  She also took her "wife" with her. She is facing serious charges, several felonies, and got picked up on possession charges. I'm grateful its not me.

I guess what I'm saying is, is that it doesn't get better for them or the next person. Especially when addiction is involved.

Part of me does feel bad, but another part of me is saying I told you so. I'm really trying to be humble.

The ex tried telling me after 2 months sobriety that she was a different person. I know that's not how it works.

As for me, 13 months clean!

Let her wife deal with the drama

NC is the only way to go

[Surnia]

Yes, addiction is not something to overcome in 2 month!

Good you could leave this very unhealthy rs, you got not drawn into her toxic lifestyle.

Keep going with your life!