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« on: November 04, 2013, 07:41:57 AM »

well it has been over three months since my husband got his job,,for those of you that don't know my husband has BPD, we've been married almost 16 years and i have known as long he is undiagnosed, anyway he lost his 14 year job due to he found another one but once  he was done like three days they let him go.he was unemployed like three and a  half months driving me crazy... then he got this job, he of course had to go to orientation out of town one week and he works nights,


so i wanted to update you since it has been a while... so far so good he loves his job. we don't see each other that much due to he works over nights i work a swing every day but one... we see eacb other in passing and on saturdays after i get off work/  but this is ok ...

  he has stress but of a different kind. and so he is even better then before and he was good then. so on with life we go.  Being cool (click to insert in post) Being cool (click to insert in post) Being cool (click to insert in post) Being cool (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2013, 08:35:32 AM »

Great to hear this Wanda!

Thanks for giving us an update that life continues to improve... .Yay!
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« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2013, 12:16:47 PM »

Good news Wanda!
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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2013, 04:58:34 PM »

That's wonderful news  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #4 on: November 04, 2013, 07:34:07 PM »

It's always great to hear from you, Wanda- your story is so inspiring to me! 

Hope it all stays well, your H continues to adapt to his new job and enjoy it!
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« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2013, 10:07:07 AM »

 it has been over three months now and so far so good so knowing him he will stay at this  job, he makes good money and gets bonuses all the time, he doesn't  complain like he use to with his other job.  so it is even better then before i come on here to  help others and tell my story also to remind me i have a husband with a disease... and he is undiagnosed... .
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