people who are are struggling don't

[AWest84]

I have been back and forth with my ex BPDgf so many times, the last attempt she tells me she loves me but didn't want a relationship so she doesn't start her BPD cycle again. Only to find out she is dating another guy and actually had him over after I left from just sleeping with her. Dont listen to a word they say it hurts I know. You want to jump for joy but truth is they aren't gonna get better tell they got to T and get meds if they do this there is a slight chance but just move on I was the best guy in the world to her but still abused mentally all the time. Its your turn there are so many women out there. Cut all ties dont look back I bed all of you

[huhhuh]

Thx for that. You are so right. It will not be different another time. It will be the same over and over again until they accept responsibility. But they will slide off everytime.

Sometimes I just need to remind myself of the constant fear of setting off her temper and not only glorify the good times.

However I don't think she'll come back... .well... only unless it suits her of course.

Anyway... thanks for the reminder.