Ok the smear campaign is real How to deal with this...

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I sent a text asking for closure. I got a return text, projecting everything on to me, and then calling me physically abusive, and then saying "I am telling everyone what your like. The didn't like you in the first place, and they don't like you even more now".  

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I know right were are at because this near identical to what I've had my BPDgf do to me... . I can't ask her associates what was said because I am sure if I can be accepted.  How much and frequently does she talk this way about me, I want to know. For you my friend I hope the way I frame you make usable to yourself. on your side. I came here to get a glimpse of insight and pearls of advise. I have a compounded problem in that not only my BPDgf is suffering, I also have a personality disordered sibling that has distorted my reputation and brought charges.  Now, I have the very tricky need to discover to what extent and what styles my sibling in connecting to my gf.  Are they chilling and not smashing together  viciously against me? I think my sis is chilled... . she brought me gifts and left at my door. She also has me on restraining orders no contact by legal protective services. If I got near her the police would be in force to protect her, yet truth is I was and never have acted violently. Her report made me into a violent danger that has already beat her... oy vey, never have I. Well, I do know she is trying. She wants me to get furniture and take home. But is she wavering? Could she have bouts of paranoia?   These are hard to answer questions.  My gf too says I am a very angry madman. But my BPDgf is on restraining orders soon off probation. I fear this. Her mouth against me my friends is called projection. She undoubtedly believes  Im the bad guy but she was B&W, I know she is BPD. back to sis,    I haven't been able to make close contact with sis and see if she is warming and wanting to talk. Help, help us all in the shape of affairs. Thank you folks for dear kindness lent.  And my friend with simialr question this your forum. Hope It was alright the way I broke in. This is difficult to write out. Bless, Good luck... .