What happened that caused you to pull away from them?
I don't even know where to begin. The very short and uncomplicated version would be to say that neither my wife nor my family ever liked each other much from the beginning, but that's also oversimplifying things and giving my wife a little too much credit. She always made mountains out of molehills even when my family was trying their best to include her and treat her well. I always made it worse by eventually siding with my wife and not making her deal with the facts.
On top of all that, I'm a transgender man (assigned female at birth but I live as a man) and my family has a difficult time dealing with this in general. For the longest time, my wife and I were "roommates" when my parents told extended family or friends about my life.
I e-mailed my mom this morning just to catch up on life and also said that I'd like to talk on the phone sometime. I told her that I'm a bit in over my head these days and need help but don't deserve it. We will see how things go from here.