Why did she move away?

[eagle755]

So many posts by me. Sorry everyone, just distraught.

It's been two months since I found my ex with BPD cheating on me.

Not gonna go too much into detail. Its a BPD story like all the rest. Amazing, loyal girl, completely faithful, loved me endless, great relationship. Over night she started to hate me and lie and hide things that I have yet to even figure out, I just know things are hidden. Few months of this and fighting, and us living together. I catch her at another guys house. She has had sex with him twice. I end things, move out, etc. She begged me back at first. Then didn't even seem to care. Still said she cared, said she loved me, said she wants to be with me in the future cuz she'll never get over me. But she kept lying, kept seeing and talking to guys, etc.

Okay that's the gist of it.

What I want to know, is why she moved across the entire country?

We live in Florida, and 2 weeks ago she decided to move to Ohio. Her reason: to fix myself, become better, and be with you when I come back.

Reasonable, for someone not with BPD.

Instead of staying here, and shagging up with the guys she knows here, she moved all the way up there, where she knows nobody, where she sleeps all day due to her depression, where she doesn't do anything but work and sleep.

My question is why?

This doesn't seem normal for someone with BPD to be so self loathing and all.

[Emelie Emelie]

Oh Eagle I think they are filled with self loathing.  Maybe that's what she's trying to run away from.