I think I am there

[Tincup]

Hi all,

I think I am finally at the point where I don't care.  We have been broken up for a year, and it has taken me the entire year to get to this point but I am here finally.  Now don't get me wrong, I don't wish her any harm or ill wishes.  Contrary to to that, I wish her all the happiness in the future.  But where I am finally at is I am not consumed anymore, she doesn't drive my thoughts anymore, she doesn't impact my behavior anymore.  She no longer has any impact on my life!  I don't care anymore if I run into her on the street, if I see her car, if I see her walking, etc. 

What a freeing time this is.  Everyone will get there, just keep up the good work and post when you need to.  I didn't think it would take a full year, and NC was my BEST FRIEND.  Stay strong-

Tincup

[PhoenixBlack]

Hi Tincup! Congrats mate - really pleased for you!

I can't wait until I'm where you are! I still have a way to go but seeing this is a really positive sign 

[Popcorn71]

I'm happy for you 

I'm getting there after a year also - maybe not as far on as you, but definately improving and much much happier