Am I Nuts

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Ok so my husband is moving out next week into his own apartment. He moved his wedding ring from his left hand to his right this week. I do not suspect he is has someone else but assume from this move he is ready to take action. Simultaneously, in our church he is leading a men's prayer group and is trying to act like he's all pious and glorified. How do they reconcile their actions while also feeling spiritual? Over the last six months I have literally screamed at him over and over again while he does so many things that are so narcissistic and is accusing me of BPD because of my absolute frustration. He is also buying properties and not telling me about them but hardly has money to spare. He drives an old Mercedes trying to keep up with the guys he plays tennis and golf with all the time. He has take over and enjoyed my more upscale life. Where does this grandiosity and religiousness fit with his need for validation from others, soon to be another woman?

[TedBear]

Ok so my husband is moving out next week into his own apartment. He moved his wedding ring from his left hand to his right this week. I do not suspect he is has someone else but assume from this move he is ready to take action. Simultaneously, in our church he is leading a men's prayer group and is trying to act like he's all pious and glorified. How do they reconcile their actions while also feeling spiritual? Over the last six months I have literally screamed at him over and over again while he does so many things that are so narcissistic and is accusing me of BPD because of my absolute frustration. He is also buying properties and not telling me about them but hardly has money to spare. He drives an old Mercedes trying to keep up with the guys he plays tennis and golf with all the time. He has take over and enjoyed my more upscale life. Where does this grandiosity and religiousness fit with his need for validation from others, soon to be another woman?