do pwBPD understand what the word commitment means?  :)o they really want to connect and be committed in such a way that we do, a give and take and spend the rest of your lives together, even if it isn't always easy?
No, depending on how the BPD grew and what their symptoms are it shows in different ways, but no.
I know dBPDbf is willing to discuss the hard stuff. He is more of the victimized, inferior-feeling 'I am worthless to the world, to you, so you better deal with stuff being difficult all the time.' He doesn't pretend to be a good boyfriend, which is honest but also extremely annoying and fearful (why the hell am I staying if he's even saying out loud he sucks at this?).
Commitment means intimacy, and they fear this as much as they fear you leaving them.