Hell, maybe they'll live happily ever after. My ex was cheating on me and got caught. It's only when she got questioned by me about our relationship that she broke up with me. They had communication on Facebook and my ex was listed "in a relationship" with my profile while they were cheating. And while my replacement may be a great guy. I have no respect for a man BOY that cannot find a single woman for a relationship and pursues women that they know are married or in relationships. I would love to see him in person so that I can tell him to his face, "Rocky, you have no integrity or character as a man, you are a BOY".
Enjoy your prize sir and good luck, you'll need it. Play stupid games, get stupid prizes, what a chump... .
ehh, you don't know what she was telling him. I was told repeatedly that the relationship was over, that she had told him so, yadda yadda yadda... This is very true. When i first met the BPDx she told me she was in the process of getting divorced. I came to find out she was still sending him love notes and only let him go once she reeled me in. She did the exact same thing when courting the replacements after me.
They can't be alone for one minute. Not one.
Yes. After the break up and the subsequent emerging from the FOG i put the pieces together.
I remember when we first started texting she sent me photos from her on her patio or the view or whatever. It wasn't the same place I visited her at a month later.
I knew she had, according to her, recently broken up with some guy. I wasn't too worried about it since they had only been together for two months... .so I also didn't make the connection between the other guy and the old place (they had only been together for two months, right?... .which actually wasn't a lie.)
But they had actually moved into a house together after two months of dating, and she had already begun triangulating with me. Go figure. So irrational and unreal... .How could I have caught that?
It is actually like a thread that ran through our entire relationship. She often didn't really lie. But the stories she half way explained were, in reality, so insane that my brain just put them together in a way that made sense.
Her way of gaslighting. She could just say: Never said that. You knew that. I told you.
But i digress.
Just as a side note, since it has to do with them never being lonely. We were already living together, when I was going through some bags to find one suitable for my use. I had to empty some stuff out of one. I found a not that struck me as so weird. In retrospect it makes me laugh. At the time I thought it must be really old (J is the husband she was married to before she got together with the guy i replaced) and she just had this note in this unused bag from way back. It was a list, it read to the effect of (the last two items are the ones I remember verbatim:)
- Creamer
- Book
- Carwash
- Coffeemachine
- Infinite love for J, forever.
Hilarious. Isn't it?
