Hi crisns.

You are in a good place to learn more about BPD and what types of tools you can use to take care of yourself and support your partner.
I think you are posting on the right board, as it sounds like you are interested in staying and improving your marriage. What sorts of questions do you have?
A good starting place for investigating BPD is the links on the right hand side of this page.
I wish you well on your journey and please do feel safe to let us know what or how we can help you out.
