The Mathematics of BPD

[goldylamont]

Haha!  So I'm watching re-runs on TV right now and ran across this funny mathematical equation which charts hotness vs. crazyness. hilarity:

The Hot/Crazy Scale:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=uN_sSXKbzHk

[letmeout]

Me and math have never gotten along but even I know that 1+1=2 and he would try to convince me that 1+1= 12 on Monday and it'd equal 22 on Tuesday and the then on Wednesday it'd equal purple with pink poke-a-dots.



Yes, Irrational is what is all equals.

Oh my, I so remember those days too!

[woofhound]

So I had my first Intro to Accounting class tonight... .We discussed briefly the concepts of return on investment. Basically:

Initial Investment + Additional Expenditure = Return

In BPD terms:

Putting your heart on the line, trust, love, emotional connection, etc. + money spent of gifts and food, constantly having your values and boundaries trampled, coping with them cheating = broken heart, diminished mental and emotional state, depression etc... .

My relationship broker is telling me to sell before the BPD bankrupts my soul!

[Emelie Emelie]

Simple.  He = Pain.

[thereishope]

My relationship broker is telling me to sell before the BPD bankrupts my soul!

I can relate... . 

[bigredboomer]

Folks, beautifully done and incisive.

[mywifecrazy]

uBPDxw = internal (pain + loneliness)

uBPDxw + any r/s = internal (pain + loneliness)

MWC + uBPDxw = MWC + FOG

MWC - uBPDxw = (-FOG) + (Truth + Happiness)= MWC * 

This math Lesson brought to you by... .MWC

[Moselle]

uBPDxw = internal (pain + loneliness)

uBPDxw + any r/s = internal (pain + loneliness)

MWC + uBPDxw = MWC + FOG

MWC - uBPDxw = (-FOG) + (Truth + Happiness)= MWC * 

This math Lesson brought to you by... .MWC

I think this is Brilliant LOL.

Here's my situation:

Moselle = Aron*FOG^2

Aron*FOG^2 + uBPDw = (14yrs + D5, D10, D13)FOG^2

Aron*FOG ^2 - (14yrs + D5, D10, D13)FOG^2 = -uBPDw

FOG^2 (Aron - 14 yrs + D5, D10, D13) = -uBPDw

Aron - 14 yrs + D5, D10, D13 = -uBPDw/FOG^2

Aron + D5, D10, D13 = -uBPDw/ FOG^2 + 14 yrs

Happy family = uBPDw, FOG and 14 years of craziness

OK there's something wrong with my maths, but at least I and my three daughters are on one side of the equation, and my uBPDw is on the other. Perhaps she'll leave us alone to heal.

[mywifecrazy]

This will make sense if you know my story



MWC + uBPDxw = 18yrs Married + (s14 + s9)

Fathers Day 2013 = uBPDxw + new r/s

Fathers Day 2013 (+) = uBPDxw > 20 miles from MWC

Fathers Day 2013 + 1 yr = uBPDXW < 50 Yards from MWC

MWC > 20 miles from uBPDxw = As soon as F¥cking possible!



MWC... . 

[mywifecrazy]

Hey Moselle,

I read these again and I did get a chuckle Especially this last one.

Here's an Update:

Jan 2015=MWC  House up for sale=X

?=Date house sells and I can finally move away from uBPDxw

X*?=Soon (By the grace of God)

MWC... .

[Moselle]

Had a good laugh too

I like this one. A new start  - away from the crazy.

Well you can see that I've had a name change.  This was in response to W hacking into my account. I'm impressed - BPD fam's software has even changed the name in the text of my equations.

[TheDude]

No need for complicated equations - Harry Nilsson had this all figured out in 1968... .

"One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do

Two can be as bad as one

It's the loneliest number since the number one"

[jhkbuzz]

I was going to say that the formula was wrong because love does not equal pain. Then I thought some more and realized that in my 57 years on this earth I've loved two women and both tried to destroy me and the pain is/was awful. So based on my experience to date, you are correct. However, I have to believe that "healthy" love does not equal pain. I just haven't experienced it yet. Someday I hope to.

The post was the mathematics of BPD - not healthy love... .

[evilpepsi]

I was going to say that the formula was wrong because love does not equal pain. Then I thought some more and realized that in my 57 years on this earth I've loved two women and both tried to destroy me and the pain is/was awful. So based on my experience to date, you are correct. However, I have to believe that "healthy" love does not equal pain. I just haven't experienced it yet. Someday I hope to.

Their pain was caused by someone that they loved in their childhood. Love for them has to hurt or it's not love... .

[Moselle]

Their pain was caused by someone that they loved in their childhood. Love for them has to hurt or it's not love...

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This is spot on. Their baseline reference is pain.  And it's hardwired into the brain. To recover they have to.re-develop that part of their brain. It's why BPD is so resitant to treatment.