sorry i don't know your story ~ is your ex-wife the pwBPD in your life? if so, you might want to write this "Narc Plan" that i found somewhere on the internet out on a sticky note and tape it to your bathroom mirror like i did. and read it every day, as often as needed. (and yes, a narc plan applies to pwBPD, as all borderlines are narcisstic, usually very much so, sometimes enough to get a co-morbid Dx of NPD):
1) get out of dodge
2) don't look back
3) deal with your pain on your own
icu2
Well this lonely detachment vigil is, as you know, really crappy but worth it in the long run... .My ex-wife is in a happy marriage to a good guy and she and I are actually friends. I am friends with her husband also. She is the stepmom to my kids and is a good listener and has been supportive of me in other areas... .Without anyone to talk to I was thinking of giving her a call but am not sure if I should just wait to get an appointment with a T.