It's been awhile since I posted, I just read other posts when I needed to hear stories like mine. However, today I need to vent. I came back from a volunteer event and one of the woman who works at the Animal Shelter asked me if the one woman I'm friendly with was dating my Ex and I said "No," I was pretty certain. Then I asked the woman and she admitted that she is dating my Ex and that they met on a dating site (but knew each other from the animal shelter) and it was just luck that they found each other on there. I was actually more hurt that she did that, because I've lost respect for my Ex a long time ago and I've actually wanted to hang out with her outside of the shelter events. Not anymore, don't trust her now and I've opened up about my Ex to her and she even warned me about his kinda behavior but I guess it's okay for her. I know the woman last relationship wasn't very healthy, so maybe it's more of the same.
I really don't want anything to do with him so it's not really jealousy it's just the respect and the boundary breaking. Ironically, some of the people at the Shelter think we look alike... .not to say that is the reason ha... .that's my ego talking.
I guess I wish he would just go away and unless they get married, or have to see all the weird back and forth and break ups with them. Well, I guess I can tell her one day if they do, "you can't say I didn't warn you!."
