hello just checking in

[Wanda]

 

HEllo   well again it has been awhile and i see not familiar names. must of been awhile since i have been on... MY husband is the one with undiagnosed BPD. things here are going fine, my oldest who is  handicap moved out the middle of Dec so  now i am empty nesting I work swing shift where my husband works nights we don't see each other much due to our hours.(i think that is the key) and my son moving out was the best thing not only for him because he needs to learn to be on his own but also for everyone involved. it was  rough at first due to my husband hates changes ,but he soon got over this and now things are quite here. sometimes i just need to come on to remind myself of his awful disease. Easter is around the corner so i better hippy hop out of here .

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[EaglesJuju]

Hi Wanda, 

Welcome back.

It sounds like things are going well for you. 

Having your son move out must have been hard at first.  It is great that your husband adapted to the change of your son moving out.  What was he having time with at first?

[lbjnltx]

Hi Wanda

Good to see you again!  Glad to hear things are hopping along well.  Congrats to your son on  his independence... . for you and Dad on empty nesting.

lbjnltx