how to help

[UHMHB]

hey guys what's up its uhmhb here this is my first time posting here Iv known this girl for 17 years now she's got BPD I'm in love with her welcome to the beginning of every mans story jk anyway things are going pretty good except she told me she's in a funk and when I tried to help she told me not to whitch is strange cause she usally tells me all her problems and Igran usally help her I was just wondering if anyone knows if this is a personal thing or related to BPD and how i could help thanks and God bless:)

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Welcome to this very supportive family!  Telling us some more details about her will allow us to provide you with some more insights/advice.  Has she been officially diagnosed with BPD?  Not sure what she is referring to when she says that "she's in a funk".  Are you able to interpret what she means by this?

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People with BPD can respond in very confusing ways. Please take a look at the lessons on the right side of the page for more information about BPD. And keep posting and tell us more about your situation.