I know I can not make him Come back but what I can do till then?
Take the time to get healthy. Can you see a therapist and work through the past relationship? If you do want to get back together you should make sure it is for the right reasons and you know what you are getting into. I was charmed back into a relationship in the past by FOG. I wasn't ready to come back and it ended up being a real mess. If I would have taken the time to work on my own codependency it might have actually worked.
If you think you might want to reenter the relationship, then I would spend a lot of time on the Lessons section here so that you can come back healthy and be able to manage the relationship.
Have you had a chance to look at the lessons section?
thank you aury,for the reply .i have been thinking about a T but its not really feasible for my at this moment.i have been trading lessons over staying and improving r/s and on detaching board...
I keep reading according the way I feel and what I need help with but then I end up being do confused about my feelings as I don't want to be stuck waiting for him on the other hand I m not ok with breaking things up with him...
What lessons should I read in order to get healthy but not giving up him in the process...
Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated...
