I Finally Have Contact with His Wife

[ambivalentmom]

I just wanted to say that you guys are amazing!  I had a feeling his wife was a nice person and I was able to open up the lines of communication when I texted her to contact my D12.  I texted my possible BPDex to try to contact D12(he doesn't let me contact my D12 directly).  I texted both at the same time and hardly ever text (I recapped the texts via email), but the difference was astonishing.  There is no way she knows how bad he is!

[ambivalentmom]

So I really just wanted to say thank you everyone for the support and knowledge you have provided. My possible BPDex  has been lashing out ever since his wife said I could talk to her. I wasn't bothered by anything he said knowing that he just feels trapped because I can talk to his wife now. I think I would have been more upset before I found this site because I would have taken it personally.  Thank you all again and have a great week. My D 12 comes back the sunday. Yay!