To block or not block on Facebook a BPD,NPD,HPD?

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

BPD?NPD?HPD?  Her Doc says mostly HPD. None of her relationships end well and it all comes back to her being so intense and self centered. I dated her but I just couldn't see myself with her due to the intense HPD traits and insulting passive aggressive behavior. So I transitioned us into friends only.

I need some good adult advice. I dated this woman for 4 years. Broke up but remained friends. We have mutual friends. My issue with her is that she is an extreme histrionic personality and narcissist (aren't we all at some level?), but she has severe social awareness issues that eventually was too much for me. I held a memorial event for my late best friend, and she showed up with my two other friends. She started flirting with me on purpose to piss off my ex wife who was in attendance as she knew my buddy and family for over 25 years. I asked her to stop trying to cause trouble and that it was not the place to behave that way and it was a memorial service and family reunion. She then called my ex the "elephant in the room" as to why I was upset, and I said her behavior made her the elephant in the room. She then told me to F off and flipped me the finger and left. She then posted on FB a photo as her profile a photo of an elephant. That was 5 weeks ago. I admit I unfriended her on FB because I didnt want anymore shenanigans, and that was it. I did this well after she was given time to apologize to me. She never has and I still in no way contacted me. So the advice I need is. 1. Is it childish to send her a signal by blocking her on FB ? She has been Fb stalking me, so I thought this would be a gesture of F you too! (yes, I am a child too sometimes. Would you block her or leave her up and let her soak and take in how great I am doing without her in my friends circle. They still reach out and on occasion bellyached about how self centered she is and how emotionally abusive she can be, but they also think she is a spaz and immature and doesn't even know when she is being that way. So, does blocking her anyways to simply forget about our friendship better? Or, should I simply ignore her. I am pissed that she didn't apologize and simply is too self centered to even know she made a mistake. Am I foolish to keep people like this in my life? Did I mention she even started an argument with me 2 hours after my mothers funeral? Am I wanting revenge? Why am I on this site asking these questions and advice? Was I narcissistic supply? NPD enslaved?  Why do I want the last word?

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BPD?NPD?HPD?  Her Doc says mostly HPD. None of her relationships end well and it all comes back to her being so intense and self centered. I dated her but I just couldn't see myself with her due to the intense HPD traits and insulting passive aggressive behavior. So I transitioned us into friends only.

I need some good adult advice. I dated this woman for 4 years. Broke up but remained friends. We have mutual friends. My issue with her is that she is an extreme histrionic personality and narcissist (aren't we all at some level?), but she has severe social awareness issues that eventually was too much for me. I held a memorial event for my late best friend, and she showed up with my two other friends. She started flirting with me on purpose to piss off my ex wife who was in attendance as she knew my buddy and family for over 25 years. I asked her to stop trying to cause trouble and that it was not the place to behave that way and it was a memorial service and family reunion. She then called my ex the "elephant in the room" as to why I was upset, and I said her behavior made her the elephant in the room. She then told me to F off and flipped me the finger and left. She then posted on FB a photo as her profile a photo of an elephant. That was 5 weeks ago. I admit I unfriended her on FB because I didnt want anymore shenanigans, and that was it. I did this well after she was given time to apologize to me. She never has and I still in no way contacted me. So the advice I need is. 1. Is it childish to send her a signal by blocking her on FB ? She has been Fb stalking me, so I thought this would be a gesture of F you too! (yes, I am a child too sometimes. Would you block her or leave her up and let her soak and take in how great I am doing without her in my friends circle. They still reach out and on occasion bellyached about how self centered she is and how emotionally abusive she can be, but they also think she is a spaz and immature and doesn't even know when she is being that way. So, does blocking her anyways to simply forget about our friendship better? Or, should I simply ignore her. I am pissed that she didn't apologize and simply is too self centered to even know she made a mistake. Am I foolish to keep people like this in my life? Did I mention she even started an argument with me 2 hours after my mothers funeral? Am I wanting revenge? Why am I on this site asking these questions and advice? Was I narcissistic supply? NPD enslaved?  Why do I want the last word?

[Ripples]

It sounds like you are in limbo to me, not knowing what you should or shouldn't do to protect yourself. The answer to this question is whether this person still effects you or not. Judging by the fact that you are on this site I would suggest that she does. Therefore your only real course of action is to remove her from all aspects of your life until such time that she does not. By then you won't be interested in her one iota.

It may be that it will take a long time to resolve how this person has impacted you life. You may never really come to terms with it but you will learn how to deal with it, but as time moves on you will realise that there is no going back and that any involvement with her is futile. Put it all down to experience, give yourself time and move on. No contact will be your biggest friend to aid this process.

[Sadly]

Speaking as someone who is presently going through the almost suicidal depression and heartbreak of breaking up and being rejected by a BPD I would say block and then leave alone. If you haven't been damaged emotionally or if you have recovered and are just annoyed by her actions then you are very lucky. Pity her, she is ill. You don't need her in your life anymore.