Ola butterfly27,
I'm sorry that you had to see something like that, to see your thoughtful gifts to be tossed away so easily. Are you doing ok? Were they irreplaceable items?
Overbeck does have a point - that it is important to judge the actions of our BPDexes, because in reality that is who they really are.
Sometimes I miss her but I remember that video and the things she did to me ... .I was never a priority in her life, there was always someone else that was between our relationship but she always ended back to my arms saying she loved me and wanted only me, now this feeling is strange because I feel free...
I never thought she would do this to me, this kind of behavior is childish. She wanted me contianesse around like a dog getting the remains of attention and love it when I said I did not want it in my life and she was to give me back my gifts back she acted this selfish and completely insane way.