soo tired

[euhm]

Hi everyone,

Me and my ex arent together anymore but cz I still love him, i want to post here.

After he left for someone, came back, left again to engage himself week later, he still searches contact and sends mixed signals.

His new one is also unstable and he feels miserable very often.

Is there a reason that someone with BPD chooses to be unhappy or something?

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[Beacher]

It's very draining. They hope the next person will give them the unconditional love that seems to elude them. My husband feels that everyone, at some time in his life, has failed them. It is a very sad way to live and where I used to be very angry and resentful, I know now it's part of their condition and they have no control. That being said, it's up to you to be happy and find out what you really want. This site is wonderful and will help you with this. Keep posting!

[euhm]

Ât this point I still want him to come home and most people think i'm crazy

[euhm]

I've sended you a private message, hope you dont mind