Im NC for more than 5 weeks with my ex BPD gf... .it's hard but I'm OK.
Tonight I'm feeling so more rage and anger that I got a migraine! :S I'm not able to free my mind. BPD sufferers are expert to destroy lives and then keep going without remorse and empathy. My ex destroyed the life of the guy before me... .I was the replacement... .she told me he was a violent and abusive type of partner... .now I know it's 100% false... .and she did it after being with him for 9 years! 2 years after, that's my turn... .same patern... .cheating and lying and then leaves with another replacement without remorse and empathy and everything is going well for her... .new guy, new friends... .anyways I only hope that one day the Wheel is going to turn... .that their demolition work is gonna ends someday... .
Personally, I don't think the wheel ever stops. Even with DBT/meds, which may slow the wheel, I don't think it ever fully stops. BPD isn't "curable", it's always there. At least, from everything I've read on it, it seems that way.