Well, I think our whole relationship of 3 months was a testing. We were seeing each other almost every day for a month before that. He was texting me every day, we were holding hands and hugging, but he was never making a move. When I confronted him, he said that the break up with his ex was fresh, that he isn´t ready and that I should give him time. I said "ok". But he kept with the same behaviour. I finally told him he can´t play with me like that and that he should make up his mind. He then agreed to enter the relationship, but said that he is afraid that it woud harm us and that it would be difficult at first. I was always supposed to wait for something that never came and endure his bad behaviour. I didn´t even know what exactly was I waiting for, I mean, what is he going to be like after a certain amount of time or if I´m gonna like that guy at all. Really weird. When I said I wasnt happy, he was like "What did I tell you at the beginning, it is going to be difficult." He always threw that idea of "waiting for him" at me, as if that was some kind of proof to him that I cared. Whatever.
Ah, the classic "prove you love me" test. (Hint: you can never do that)
I had to deal with a lot of double standards and 'tests' from J. It was always something... .I didn't trust her enough, I didn't love her enough, I wasn't honest with her... .even when I always 'proved' otherwise, it didn't matter.
I'm also a fan of the "you're always testing me. Making me prove I'm sincere about us" line I would get from her. Yeah, I'm was the one testing her all the time
