Hi unicorn2014
Also keep in mind that in her last text to me she said the reason she would email was because she couldn't text.
Seems she's a fast learner then
Your mother ended the text with a 'straight goodbye' which shocked you. Why did it shock you so? Was it because this is how your partner and dad end messages? What did it signal to you that she just ended the note with a 'straight goodbye'?
She didn't like the fact that I said I was in another city with my daughter so she got flippant.
When you say she got flippant, are you talking about this text she sent you out of the blue? Or are you perhaps (also) talking about something else she said or did?
She called me a liar, lazy, and other names I don't want to remember. So violent.
Being called these kinds of things by one's own mother can be very damaging indeed. Do you feel that you've been able to heal from the hurt this caused you?
Take care and I hope your tooth extraction goes/went well